Tuesday, June 19, 2012

How will history remember “The Other” King?

By now, most of you have heard of the passing of Rodney King.  The man made famous for being beaten by LA Police after a traffic incident in 1991 was found at the bottom of a pool on Father’s Day morning.  He was 47.

The incident that Mr. King was most associated with led to a trial of LA Police Officers.  After four white police officers were acquitted of beating the African-American Rodney King in the first trial in 1992, Los Angeles exploded in the worst race riots since 1965.  A second civil rights trial ultimately found the officers guilty a year later, and the LA Police began a major overhaul that forever changed the way the Southern California Police Force operates. 

And yet, I noticed very few Facebook comments regarding the passing of Rodney King on Sunday.  I believe it’s because we just don’t know how to deal with it.  Mr. King wasn’t exactly a sympathetic figure as he had many run-ins with the law before and after that fateful night.  He battled alcohol and other drug addictions, and it’s possible that the alcohol demon in his life ultimately led to his early passing.  No major civil rights leaders appeared to really try to help Rodney.  What did they care?  He was just a means to an end.  Rodney himself didn’t feel like he was such an important figure, and he still grappled with how his life affected the bigger picture.

And yet, “the other” King may have had a more profound impact in today’s world than the other more famous King.  Some believe that the worst of the LA Gang Wars between the Crips and Bloods ended because of the Rodney King beating. It also had an indirect effect of, later that year, helping to elect what author Toni Morrison called “The First African-American President” in the form of Bill Clinton. Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Maxine Waters, and other African-American politicians used the story of Rodney King to pressure all levels of society to end any forms of racism. The OJ Simpson murder trial in 1995 may have also been influenced by what happened four years earlier. And Barack Obama’s election to the Presidency in 2008 can trace some of its momentum to what happened on that March night in 1991.

It’s a stupid question to ask, but could the legacy of Rodney King be ultimately bigger than that of Dr. Martin Luther King?  Stupid question?  Not exactly.  At the end of Dr. King’s life, many critics called him Martin Loser King, because Dr. King was not affecting change enough.  Talk to the kids my age and slightly younger.  Ask them whose life had the greater impact.  They might be tempted to say Rodney King because Dr. King is a myth in their eyes compared to the apparent real-life struggles of Rodney King.  Some people compare his plight to Rosa Parks, except Rodney King’s brush with the law was not planned.  He is an accidental historical figure, caught between the political tug of war with Police Commissioner Darryl Gates and Mayor Tom Bradley in the LA of the early 1990s. 

Rodney King deserved a better ending than this.  “Can we all just get along?”  A nice sentiment he spoke of in 1992, but until more people on all sides take his words to heart, it is a dream we are still chasing.  Sadly, Rodney King will never see the day come where the answer to his question will be a definite yes.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

A Letter to the Walker family at 50 years

June 16, 2012

Dear Mom & Dad, Janet & Sheri, and the rest of the Walker-related clan:

It is my hope that when you read this, most of us will be gathered together in Williamsburg to celebrate the Golden Anniversary of Mom’s and Dad’s Wedding.  It’s amazing to think that we are celebrating 50 years of marriage in this family in an age where society shuns such accomplishments in this life.  But with 3 kids, 6 grandkids (for now), and a lifetime of memories, Mom and Dad have earned this victory lap.

To Mom and Dad:  Congratulations on 50 years of marriage!  You should be proud to know how you have raised three kids who are independent, have loving spouses, are contributing members of society, and have outstanding kids of our own.  You don’t realize it, but the lessons you have taught us have stuck with us.  We are grateful for you taking us to church and raising us in Christian love and forgiveness.  From me, I want you to know that I as an adult, I have always strived to honor you in how I live my life with my own family.

To Janet:  It’s tough being so far apart in age.  Even though we both live in the Baltimore area, getting together has never been easy, and it’s even more difficult now with our families at different stages in life.  But I do love you, Frank, and the boys, even when Frank is being, well, Frank.  I’m grateful for the timely help you provided over the years here in Baltimore.

To Sheri:  I understand why you and your family are not here in Williamsburg this weekend with us.  Even if you had known in advance what was going on, it probably would have been unlikely to join us due to the distance.  I am happy you have gotten three kids through high school, and off to college and Grad School.  I’m glad you and Steve have remained faithful to the Lord.  I cherish all the times we spent together as a family over the years, and I hope that we can have one more chance to spent time together, if it is possible.   I hope you and Steve are looking forward to your Silver Wedding Anniversary next April.

To Liz:  I know I don’t always get it right with the concept of being a family.  We have much to learn as we grow in our marriage.  Joshua makes our lives interesting to say the least.  But rest assured, I take the words we spoke at our wedding seriously.  And I hope the years are kind to us.  Will we reach 50 years of marriage?  I hope so.  I love you, dear, and I love Joshua, too.

In closing,  I am happy to be a part of this family after all these years.  I wish everyone continued health and happiness as the years go forward.

Blessing to all the members of the family.

David

Saturday, June 9, 2012

The last Snellville Graduation Party…

“It was 20 years ago today…”
June 9, 1992 marked the end of an era on multiple levels at South Gwinnett High School.  For one thing, it marked the departure of the Class of 1992, a Class that was one of the better graduating classes the school had ever known.  For another, it was the last group of students to attend who knew John Campbell as Principal.  But a third era ended on that night that was less heralded until long after the Class of ‘92 had departed.  It was the last South Gwinnett Senior Class to graduate in the city of Snellville.
Sure, the Class of 1991 has the official distinction of being the last class to graduate at South Gwinnett—you can thank Mother Nature for that.  And my sister Janet’s class has an even better distinction—they were the last SGHS class which covered the entire Snellville city limits in 1981.  But even though we graduated that night at First Baptist Church (just a 1/4 mile from the campus), we still graduated in the city limits.  As fate would have it, moving indoors proved to be the right call—though we didn’t know it until after the ceremony was over.
That weekend was a very special weekend in the Walker household.  My nephew, Andy Olson, was being baptized at our church on the Sunday before graduation.  Also, 1992 marked the first time students who had an “A” in a class at South could skip the final exam.  Since it was the first time, the rules were very loose (meaning it covered as many classes as you wanted it to), and I had the good fortune to be sitting with all A’s going into the final exams.  So, my last day of classes unofficially was Thursday, June 4th.  When my grandmother arrived that night from Cincinnati, I had the entire weekend to spend time with family and friends instead of having to worry about my exams.
Sunday afternoon was the Baccalaureate Service at First United Methodist Church.  Though it was not a required event, most of the class attended.  Holly Guy’s mother gave the opening address.  Mark Smith and Faithanne Coleman were the speakers representing our class on that day.  Mark was able to get through his address, though not without some emotions clearly flowing through his voice.  Faithanne couldn’t even complete her address before being overcome by the moment.  Luckily, Wendi Serafin stepped in to help complete the address.  After the ceremony, we all gathered for pictures that we knew we couldn’t take at graduation.
On Tuesday morning, during the Graduation Rehearsal, we learned we would not graduate at the Football Stadium as we had hoped.  It was rumored that Principal Krug was not happy with someone burning “’92” into the grass at South’s Football Stadium.  Still, there was a threat of rain that night (as there had been for a few days) and Mr. Krug was taking no chances.  Everyone was given 5 admission tickets for FBC Snellville.  5 tickets wasn’t going to cover my family, but lucky for me, I knew the Smith twins and Brian gave me an additional ticket for the ceremony. 
A number of Seniors gathered at Jeff Cwiek’s house for a pre-graduation party that afternoon.  (For the record, I did not partake of the Senior Punch.)  They were even pretending to give away fake Graduation tickets as a protest; however, as I understood, no one was admitted inside FBC with a fake ticket.  I left after about an hour there to go home and prepare for the ceremony.
My father, grandmother, and I arrived at FBC first before anyone else had arrived.  After a quick Q&A with Mr. Krug himself, we realized the best seats in the house were in the upper right balcony (the graduates would be going from left to right in the diploma ceremony), so my dad and grandmother took up position in the front row of the balcony to wait for the rest of the family, while I moved into the old chapel to join my classmates marching into the chapel.
Since the chapel could not accommodate the Band, a recording of “Pomp and Circumstance” was played as we walked in.  Because of my Honor Roll Academic Standing, I was among the first group of Students who marched in, and I got a Second row seat slightly off-center to the pulpit.  I don’t remember sitting there, but the pics confirm this.
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First up, was the Pledge of Allegiance.  John Brown had the Honors, which caused some of us to worry.  John was the kind of person to speak his mind, and he wasn’t shy about saying something controversial, especially when it came to Patriotic things.  But John played it straight, and he later told me he understood the gravity of the moment and never considered any deviation from doing his job.
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With the pledge out of the way, it was time for the addresses from members of the Senior class.  Class President Josh Gunn talked about… socks.  It was perfect Josh all the way.  Made you laugh, made you think, and it was very colorful.  After Josh came Kim Julian’s Salutatorian Address.  Kim understood the moment, and kept her speech to under 3 minutes.  It was a simple and perfect middle speech, even though I can barely remember it’s subject matter.  Finally, Class Valedictorian Brent Bailey got his moment in the Spotlight.  “Stand up, speak up, shut up.”  And he lived up to those words.
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Then it was time to get the diplomas.  There are bad and good qualities about having a last name near the end of the alphabet.  The bad quality is the fact that you have to wait so long to get your diploma.  But the good aspect is the fact that once you get your diploma, you don’t wait very long for the rest of the names to be called before the whole exercise is over.  It also was a unique ceremony.  With many of my classmates sitting so close to the actual diploma exchange, it was impossible not to exchange high fives with old friends on the way towards the handshake with Principal Krug and getting the diploma.  It may have been one of the only graduations in South’s history where you could do that.  After the handshake, a thumbs-up to my family who were up in the balcony, and it was official:  I was now a high school graduate.  Of course, the ceremony was not without some of the people opening up an umbrella here and there and one beach ball flying around.  The faculty didn’t exactly like that, but that was the worst anyone did that night.
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Finally, after the singing of the alma mater hymn, the ceremony was over.  Hugs, handshakes and hand slaps, and Jeff Cwiek carried me out of the church on his shoulders.  Outside, we discovered that a thunderstorm had come through during the ceremony as evidenced by the damp concrete and squishy ground, and we would later find out that Parkview’s graduation was ruined by the downpour.  But that did not put a damper on more celebrations with friends (I remember celebrating with another graduating Walker—Jason Walker), and then it was a 5-10 minute drive home for the after party.
Since that fateful night, 20 South Gwinnett graduations have come and gone.  As far as I can tell, all of them have taken place up in Duluth at either the Gwinnett Civic Center or the Arena at Gwinnett Center, meaning that it takes nearly 30 minutes just to get back into South’s home turf.  It is logistically unlikely (given the current situation in Snellville and the current size of South’s Graduating classes) that another class will ever get their diplomas in Snellville again.  It makes the events of that night even more significant and special.

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Bloomberg vs. Liberty

Michael Bloomberg, Mayor of New York City, wants to limit how much soda you can drink in the name of health.  He has proposed a ban on sugar sodas in cups over 16 oz.  The backlash against such a proposal has only toughened his stance.  He is attacking any one who thinks the proposal is folly, stating any attempts to block his plans would be vetoed by NY’s Governor or the Courts.

Bloomberg is a hypocrite just based on what he is proposing to ban.  The ban just covers sugary sodas.  A 20 oz. coffee loaded with cream and sugar.  No problem.  A 20 oz. bottle of beer.  No problem.  A 20 oz. Milkshake.  OK.  Even a 20 oz. Diet Soda or glass of juice.  Sure.  20 ounce sugar soda?  CRIMINAL!!  TWO HUNDRED DOLLAR FINE!!  Never mind that most of these other beverages could have more calories or sugar than a sugar soda.  Heck, while I was at Dunkin Donuts this morning, I noticed that a 12 oz. Tropicana OJ has more calories than nearly all 12 oz. sodas.  No, Bloomberg has identified the next great evil, and it’s a Coca-Cola Freestyle Machine.

By the way, what does a 16 oz. soda look like anyways?  At McDonalds, it is a small cup.  At Burger King, it is a Value-size drink cup.  I believe Wendy’s and Hardee’s doesn’t have anything as small as a 16 oz. cup unless it is a smaller kids cup.  To meet these demands, the restaurants may stop selling any cups larger than 16 oz, which may impose a price increase due to shrinking 16 oz. cup supplies.

Bloomberg thinks that by limiting soda intake, he can mandate health.  But health is a choice of the people.  You can limit soda, salt, and even ban smoking for health purposes, but if people get their calories from elsewhere, and don’t work out, all the laws banning “sin” won’t mean anything towards helping this so-called obesity crisis that everyone claims we have.  And you are pissing a lot of people off who sat on the sidelines while you were banning other sins in NYC.

Other politicians have decided that for now, education is a better approach to combat obesity.  Some progressive mayor have decided to tax sodas a little extra, but at least they aren’t mandating soda limits.  We hope their efforts work.  While I have limited my soda intake in recent weeks and changed my diet and exercise to try and remain healthy, I do like the occasional soda, and I would like to quench that thirst occasionally with a larger soda.  I don’t like being told by some politician I can’t enjoy a larger soda, especially now that I can get Coca-Cola Freestyle.

And Bloomberg… just because you attended Johns Hopkins in Baltimore, and now have a new hospital facility named for a family member (because you poured in some money), that does not mean you’re an expert on health and can dictate to all of us how much soda we can drink.  If you think this will help you become President in 2016, you are out of your mind.  Stick to what you do best… making money.